I decided to make a list of things that "rang my bell" so to speak. Every guy I know likes to have things done that he just will not talk about. Think about it guys, a sharp finger nail brushed over your nipple or maybe a gentle twisting of both, a light finger touch run from your wrist to your arm pit while your arms are held over your head. Maybe someone running their nails up the inside of your leg from knee to thigh and stopping just short of your exposed balls. The light tickle of a finger running from the back of you knee up to the crease in your butt while you are laying face down and naked. The same finger pushing your legs apart and then starting at your waist and running down your ass crack stopping only seconds to tickle your tightly puckered hole and then moving on.
I think you get the Idea. All of those things you would like to have happen but are afraid to ask for or perhaps have no one to ask.
In the process of making my list, I realized that my "secret" interests went a little further than those listed above. Hell, I think everyone would like those things, it's all about sensory touch and nerve endings. Surprisingly, however, a lot of guys will not admit to those feelings. It is no wonder that bondage has such a strong appeal to many people, in spite of the fact that they would never consider it. Just think about it, you are naked, tied spread eagle hand and foot, face down and have just given another person control of your body. Throw in a blindfold so you have no idea what will happen next and who knows what will happen.
A personal view is that anal sex is a somewhat dirty prospect, but with proper cleaning it suddenly becomes a sensual thought. It may also be somewhat painful, but with proper lube and time is very enjoyable. A blow job is a blow job but getting a well aimed cock up your ass can be the experience of a lifetime.
OK, let's talk about size. If you're reading this chances are you are six inches or less. I know there are those who are bigger, but let's face it; most of us are average or would like to be. For one, the idea of taking a ten inch cock up my ass the size of a beer can just doesn't ring my bell. However, a long and thin one most likely would.
Now lets move on to the types of cocks available in the general market. Well, we have your two basic types those that are cut and those that are not. The cut ones seem more of interest if one is to suck which most likely stems from the easy to clean and allowing more direct contact aspect. The uncut offer a variety of choices since it is basically a convertible; you can have the top up or the top down or to those with experience you can do the top up top down thing rapidly for a specific enjoyment. Top up it doesn't require any lube or special handling; top down it become very sensitive and can result in very quick response to stimulation.
Hair is a big subject for a lot of people. Some like the "bear" look others like the smooth look. Personal preference is the smooth or trimmed look. Look at a pair of unshaved balls and smooth ones, gee not a big choice.
If you have gotten this far, you are ready for my list. I guess it could be said to be my top ten list. Starting at number one: I want to give up control to someone I trust.
I want to be naked and restrained.
I want that person to be smooth, fit and small.
I want hands all over my body, when and how he chooses.
I want nipples twisted, sucked and tweaked at his choosing. I want to be manipulated and shaped, to be bent over, legs up legs spread.
I want to be sexually teased to the point I beg for release.
I want to feel a little pain. (I don't want my balls hit with a 2X4)
I want his cock up my ass in a way that makes me think this is the right thing to do.
I want him to fuck me until I loose control and spray cum all over both of us.
When he is done, I would like him to quietly leave and provide me a copy of the video tape.
How many of you would like this? Comments appreciated to wardsafe@aol.com