Kenny

By Charlie

Published on Jan 5, 2023

Gay

To: ALL

My Dear Readers,

First of all please accept my apology for sending this general note.

I have tried to answer each one personally, but it has simply

become too much. I have been inundated with email, every one

most welcome! So I decided to "bulk mail" this same note to

everyone to at lease acknowledge your kind comments to me.

Besides, I always have to have the last word.

I do want to thank you all for writing... in my mind the response

confirms that I did what I set out to do, which was to honor a very

special person. Some notes have said that I also honored Cathy,

my wife, and I'm glad of that. She is another very special person:

strong as an ox but gentle as a lamb; and she adores her gay

husband!

I have received notes from numerous people whose native

language is not English, and every last one of them apologized for

their English. In my opinion, every one of them was fine, got their

point across successfully. I do not claim to be a judge of English

Grammar, but I have known many English speaking people who

could write no better.

Someone mentioned the quotation from Shakespeare: "It is better

to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." While I

certainly agree with that statement, I don't really feel that I have

"loved and lost." Yes, Kenny is gone... in fact two Kenny's are

gone, but I still feel their presence. And the next time we meet

there will be no secrets, no planning trips to be together, no

closets, no thoughts of "I wonder if he/she knows" etc etc. And

LilKenny will no longer be sick!

I learned a lot from my father... unfortunately I learned things he

hadn't intended to teach me. Like how NOT to raise a family, how

NOT to respond to love. I learned something else too: For the last

ten years of his life, my father sat in an easy chair staring at the

TV, and feeling sorry for himself. Poor me, I am no longer a cop.

Poor me, I'm getting old. Poor me, I won't be here to see such-and

such. Sound familiar? Oh yes, I inherited the "poor me" syndrome

abundantly! But as I watched my father literally waste his life,

years after retirement that could have been so sweet, I determined

not to be like that. So to those of you who have wished me a good

"rest of your life," I say thank you, and I'm going to describe my

life today to reassure you that I do indeed have a pretty full life. I

hope you don't mind.

I am 60 years old, diabetic, with high blood pressure. Like most

diabetics I am constantly fighting to keep my blood sugar down,

but so far except for a few incidents I've managed successfully. I

still ride a motorcycle (I never mentioned it in the story, but I

bought a bike in the late 60's and have had one ever since). My

current bike is a Yamaha Venture Royale 1300cc and believe me,

that puppy will stand straight up in spite of its 900 pounds! I

know because I've done it. I sing in a church choir and also a

Men's chorus... last year I bought a new boat - a 140 horsepower

fish 'n ski model and I do both. Last year I helped Bobbi and Jeff

build their new house, and in the spring I will probably be helping

Kevin build the log home he's been planning.

Speaking of Men's chorus, I had an experience last fall that I'd

like to share. I wanted to include this experience in my story, but

there didn't seem to be an appropriate place to put it. Our chorus

was asked to sing at an AIDS benefit banquet last November 13,

Friday the 13th! So we arrived with our wives, had a wonderful

meal, then we sang. Have you ever tried to sing after stuffing

yourself? There were men and women, married and single, black

and white, Gay and Straight, HIV infected and not. The whole

affair was sponsored jointly by several Baptist churches, one of

which was all black; in fact our chorus shared the stage with a

black church choir. It was one of the most moving experiences I

have had in recent years! Makes one think that maybe there is

hope!

Oh, I almost forgot: I work approx. 50 hours a week as a LAN

Administrator for a large insurance company. I get up at 5, run a

mile or two, then in to work by 6 because all the backups, servers,

gateways have to be checked before the underwriters come in at 7.

I like to say I spent 30 years telling IBM customers how easy it all

is, and now I'm seeing for myself just how easy it is. Frankly, I

lied! It ain't easy!

I'm going back to school this year... I have my Netware and OS/2

certification, but for the last year I've been converting our

installation from OS/2 to Microsoft NT, so I'm going to go after

my Microsoft certification. At first I said no way, I'm too old, it

doesn't matter any more, I only have a few more years to work,

but what the hay, learning is learning!

Four years ago we bought a double timeshare at Myrtle Beach...

two wonderful weeks at the resort of our choice anywhere in the

world. The following year we bought another. So far we have yet

to go anywhere but MB because that place is AWESOME! But in

3 weeks we are going to the Disney World Resort in Orlando,

$275 per night, compliments of IBM. Oh yeah, we have fun!

I didn't write the foregoing to say "Look at me, ain't I great!" But

rather to assure anyone who cares that I am refusing to allow age

to interfere with my agenda. I'm not even close to being great!

But I do have a brain and I like to think I use it. And my brain

tells me that none of us will be here forever so we should make the

best of the time we have. Kenny did that, and I expect no less of

myself. I will LIVE as long as I live; there's lots of time to die

when you're dead. My family are all well established, I have a lot

of life insurance, so what need do I have for savings? At my age

every day could very well be my last and I'm ok with that, but as

long as I'm here I'm going to enjoy!

When we graduated in 1961, we were like most grads I think. We

were going to change the world, discover a cure for cancer, win a

Nobel prize, be heralded as the greatest engineers ever to live.

Well, we didn't do all that; we didn't do any of that! We never

even got to graduate school like we'd intended. But we managed

to find happiness and I think you'll agree that's something that is

all too rare these days. I am still happy today... perhaps happier

than I've ever been! I still cannot hold LilCharlie in my arms and

feed him or sing to him without tears in my eyes. Cathy, recalling

how my father acted, misinterpreted those tears. She thought I

was thinking things like "I'll never live to see him grow up!" etc,

etc. I assured her that is not the case. I am simply overwhelmed

with emotion whenever I look into his face. My daughter named

her first son after her faggot father!

Someone else wrote and told me he had started to read the series,

expecting it to be "another erotic story." I have to admit that was

my original intent, but once I got started and all those memories

came flooding back, I realized that I had so much more to tell

than the explicit details of what we did or didn't do. From the

email I have received, with two or three exceptions, I seem to have

got the message across.

Someone asked me if the Collins family were tolerant of our

triangle arrangement. Frankly, I doubt if they knew. Robbie did

because in our minds Kenny and I were both his brothers, and we

shared everything! But aside from him we didn't share our secret

with anyone who we felt had no need to know. I have no doubt

that there were suspicions, but the 'don't ask, don't tell' philosophy

prevailed.

At least two of you have asked where I learned to write so well.

Frankly, I didn't know I could. But if I do, it's primarily the result

of a German-American teacher, Professor Steinbeck. When he

told my class that engineers are traditionally terrible writers, and

that he would pass no one that couldn't write well, I took it to

heart. I loved that man! He was abrupt, rude, demanding; but he

rewarded success. He inspired me! As a technical writer, I believe

I have always been pretty good, thanks to Prof. Steinbeck. That

accounts for the grammar and spelling and mechanics; as for the

story I just wrote, well that's easy. I just wrote as if I was

speaking, folks. I was pouring out my heart, saying things that

needed to be said. As I told one person, typing this story was an

experience similar to the last time I played the organ when I was

18: it was as if my every emotion was flowing through my fingers

to the keyboard!

One time about 15 years ago I found myself traveling a lot, and

not getting to see Kenny that much. I was depressed and

wondering what life would have been like had I lived it

differently. There were lots of nights alone in hotel rooms, and I

started to write... pure fiction. I still have those stories somewhere

on diskette... I just might try posting them. I don't think they are

nearly as good as Kenny because I am simply not a creative

person. But I might just pull them out; the reaction to Kenny has

been that overwhelming!

Some other writers have suggested that I turn Kenny into a book

and publish it. Believe me I've thought about it, but I've decided

that I'll reach more of the people I want to reach by leaving it on

Nifty. I have received numerous notes from people who are, as I

was in 1952, really hurting! People who are discouraged, who

have stopped believing they can find love. They tell me that my

story has helped and inspired them, and I cannot back away from

that. As for any money I might make, it's simply not important. I

have made a good living my whole life and have absolutely

nothing to show for it financially, and I have no doubt that if I

were to make another million I'd manage to spend that too! So

Kenny will stay on Nifty as long as Nifty has a place for him.

Speaking of Nifty, I MUST send a special THANK YOU to

David, the Nifty archivist. He has been a tremendous

encouragement, has corrected typo's that I've missed, got mad at

me and yelled when I said I was going to quit way back in chapter

5 or 6 or whatever it was... THANKS, DAVID!!!! I consider you a

real friend!.

Love to all, and a SENSATIONAL 1999!

Charlie


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