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I just got off work from the concrete plant here in town and my friend Steve came up to me and we started talking.
He asked," John, remember when you said you were done with the bs. and you wanted a woman who was different?"
I said," Yeah, I remember that."
He asked," How open-minded are you about the kind of woman?"
I said," I am open-minded, what are you planning? I don't want some dude who is a cross-dresser with a big adam's apple."
He said," Nothing like that I promise just get cleaned up a little and head to my place. You don't want to meet her with all that cement dust."
I got in my pickup and headed home wondering what he was scheming.
I got cleaned up and put on a clean pair of Wranglers and a clean shirt and my polished boots and my John Deere cap.
I arrived at his place and knocked on his door.
He answered and he stepped out on the porch with me.
He said," Before you say no I want you to listen to everything I have to say and meet her before you make your decision. She was born male kind of but has always been real feminine. She started her transition when she was 17 with her parent's blessing. She has not required any surgery just hormone therapy and if you start going out with her just you and I will know the full story. I have a fiancé but if I didn't I would go out with her in a minute. She is beautiful smart and very sweet I know you will love her."
I thought about it for a coupe of minutes and said," If I don't want to go out with her after meeting her I can just leave."
He said," Yes, but please meet her and you will see what I mean."
We walked in and what I saw was this woman looking out the window and she had brunette hair cascading softly on her shoulders. She was wearing this purple one piece skirt that came down just above her knees and matching heels.
She turned and smiled and said," You must be John the man Steve told me about."
I said," Yes, Steve told me a little about you and I have to say you are beautiful. More beautiful that I could have ever imagined."
She said," My name is Cynthia and yes I was born anatomically male but that is where it stopped.
As I hit puberty my hips started getting wider to the point they are at right now. I have always been more female than male. It was very difficult for me growing up and when I was 17 I told my parents I know I am more of a woman than a man. After 2 months discussing it we went to a specialist and I was put on estrogen therapy and within 6 months my name on my birth certificate was changed and I have been Cynthia ever since. I am a straight female but it has been difficult for some people to except. I hope you can except me as a woman."
I thought about it for a minute and replied," Cynthia I never pictured going out with anybody but a genetic woman but I think after meeting you I can make an exception."
She smiled and said," Good, I am glad because I was hoping that you would except me."
We sat down and ate dinner and we all talked and laughed and I felt myself relaxed around her and that was the first time I felt that in a long-time.
Cynthia said," Oh my look at the time, I have a busy day tomorrow, John I would love it if you walk with me to my car."
I walked her out to her car and it was a late model Honda Civic.
She looked at me and said," John, you have made me extremely happy excepting me as your potential girlfriend."
I said," Up until tonight I never pictured going out with a lady quiet like you. I felt so relaxed with you. Even though you were born anatomically male you are very much a lady and if he hadn't told me as far I was concerned you would be nothing but a beautiful lady. I hope what I just said didn't offend you but no matter what you are a beautiful lady to me and I am extremely lucky to have met you."
She said," I am not offended at all but I am really happy that you think of me that way. I am in the category of what is called Male to Female Transsexual but I know I am a woman."
I said," I have never been good with labels so to me you are just a beautiful lady."
She wrapped her arms around my waist and we kissed a couple of minutes and after that she gave me a slip of paper with her number on it.
I went in to say goodbye to Steve.
He said," Well what do you think?"
I said," She is fantastic and I am glad you introduced us."
Well, that is how the relationship between Cynthia and I got started and we are still together 10 years later. I can't believe how my life has turned out I will write more in coming chapters.