Disclaimer: If you don't like or are not allowed to read man-sex, then go away. Otherwise, enjoy! Let me know what you think. Subsequent chapters will tell how this 21-year-old guy, Jo, becomes my hot bitch boy. But this is how it started, with a fan email to me....
April 1
Jo: I can't tell you how much I get into your story, ive only read it a hundred times haha.
Ive always wanted a man to treat me like that before. But ive never experienced what Cody has in the story, and I was wondering if you have actually done stuff like that, or it is after all a story? Either way its still a huge turn on. But I can't tell you what I wouldnt give to have something like that. Its so damn hot. Please get back to me either way!
Huge fan :)
Jamie: The majority of the stuff in the stories is either stuff I've done or seen done to other guys. There's a little made up though not much. Most of the fiction comes in the way "actual events" get put together. For instance, there's a lot of action in the hungryass stories I wrote that I've either done or seen done but not all in one visit to the bathhouse.
The Cody stories likewise compress time so that what happens in a weekend is stuff that in reall life is more likely to happen over a longer period of time. Or, sometimes I'll take stuff that's happened to three different people and have it all happen to Cody.
Glad you like them. They're fun to write, and I think they're pretty well received because they're pretty "true-to-life" in so far as events and personalities, even if the time frame is adjusted for the story's sake.
And, for instance, the cowboy comes in, it looks like he's gonna be there again later that night, but he finds someone else to go off with in the bar--very realistic, lol.
PS The Palace Inn stories are all pretty much accurate, even in terms of what happens in a given visit to the motel. Very little if any fiction there.
April 2
Jo: Thats really cool, I'm kinda jealous haha. I wish I had those kind of experiences to talk about. How would you go about meeting someone like yourself? I want to experience those kinds of things with a man in control. Ive always had these guys who claim they are a top, but there is just something missing. Anyway, get back to me with your thoughts.
April 6
Jamie: Well, where do you live? Maybe you could meet me ;-)
Honestly, I don't know. The obvious places to try (which I'm sure you've tried) are clubs, ABSs, and Craigslist. There are also more specialized sites like Asspig, which in spite of its name has some guys on it who are just interested in sex and not fisting. I've talked to people on manhunt but not hooked up with anyone there yet. Just joined squirt, so don't know whether it's any good for hooking up or not.
My longer-term buddies have come from bookstores (2) and Craigslist (3), but I've found a guy who seems nice on asspig and intend to get together with him this week.
So, yeah, I can't say any single place is best. You have to be willing to "date" a lot before you get someone you keep coming back to.
Oh, and I've got a guy (fan of my stories) who wants me to make him my bitch next time I'm in his town!
So, a number of possibilities and, like the rest of life, no guarantees...
Depending on how much you want to be controlled, a leather bar is definitely a possibility as is someone you meet through a bdsm site like alt.com...
April 7
Jo: Hey, thanks for the reply! I was looking forward to it. I live in Chicago-and I'm up at the naval base. Ive been to bars youre right, but no luck yet. I can't really do the website thing with a huge lack of privacy ha. I just really want a discreet experience, and I think it would be great. I'm open to whatever- really looking to do whatever the top is into. Thanks for all the advice! I will try and get to those websites eventually. Write back, it was great to hear from you.
Jamie: You don't necessarily have to have a problem with the 'huge lack of privacy" on the websites. Here's an example of a picture posted on recon, for instance. And while a lot of guys want face pics to meet, you don't have to give them. Some will go ahead and meet anyway. Or, a trick I've seen used is to get a pic of yourself and use photoshop to blur the eyes or even cut them off entirely so you only get the bottom 2/3 of the face.
So, there are things you could try. Or, if you're in Chicago, I recommend Steamworks. It's a nice bathhouse and I go there when I"m in town.
April 8:
Jo: Hey again!
So you come to Chicago every now and again? Maybe we really should meet and you could teach me a few things ;) as for the privacy thing, I'm in the navy- so open advertising maybe isn't the best idea for me is what I meant- I'm not ashamed to put my pic somewhere or something. And steamworks, ive passed it a bunch of times on nights down in boystown- but never really had the balls to go in there by myself I guess. What exactly goes on in there?
Jamie: OK, I don't mean to be offensive here, but when you advertise, you don't use your real name or contact details, dude ;-). And you make sure the pictures don't show your whole face. Some guys wear a baseball cap low over the eyes or something.
Anyway, I know it's really risky doing any advertising in the armed services, so I'm not saying you should, just reminding you that there are ways to go about it that let you show some interest and still protect yourself.
Steamworks is a good bathhouse, and depending on the night/time, almost anything goes in. Guys will tend to walk around the halls in front of the little cubicles to check each other out or go in the steam room to play in the semi-dark and steam, or sit in the jacuzzi and maybe reach out and brush someone's leg underwater where they can ignore it if they want or move closer if they want. Or some guys will go in one of the dark "maze" rooms and wait for other guys they think are hot to walk by.
The last time I was in a bathhouse, I'd see some guys on the bed in their cubicles with the door open. Sometimes, you can tell what they want to do by how they're lying on the bed--the guy who's face down on the bed wants to be fucked, for instance. One guy I fucked was lying on his back with his legs spread and slowly jacking his dick. So, I walked in, closed the door, and stood right by him. I started playing with his nips, and he reached over and sucked my cock. AS I moved closer, he spread his legs more, so I reached down and fingered his hole. It was already lubed up, so that meant he wanted to be fucked.
Any more help I can give?
As far as going to chicago... well, we ought to check stuff out first. I'm 44, 6 ft 185 lbs, brn/blu, 7" cut and have a beard. So, I'm probably older and more out of shape than you. I know a lot and could show you a good time since I know what I'm doing and will put you in your place as much--or as little--as you want. Most doms are not as considerate of their bottoms as I am. On the other hand, if you're younger than I am, you probably want somebody who looks more like yourself... So, think about that. You could send me back your stats, though ;-)
Jo: Hey again,
you make a good point about the website stuff, its definitely something to look into. As for me, I'm looking for a Dom top who does what he wants really. My only limitations so far is I don't like intense physical pain all that much. I'm 21, 5'9 blonde hair, blue eyes, 150 lbs., 7cut slim/athletic smooth. Ive fooled around with guys your age before, so it wouldnt make me uncomfortable, unless it makes you. I look for guys who are dominant and are experienced. But I would need someone that makes the rules not me, I'd shy out of it or something if it was left to me.
Jamie: Oh, I would enjoy a few hours with you in Steamworks! I see you naked in front of me, on your knees, sucking me, then shoved face down on the bed and fucked. Sounds like a good opener, doesn't it? LOL.
Spank your hot ass, then get on the bed myself and make you work all over me with your mouth. Oh yeah, boy!
Honestly, you're younger than I usually play with, but since we have a sort of connection now, it would probably be cool if you were interested.
I wanna keep in touch with you and hear how things are going for you when you go out (or even when you don't) though if you're interested in that, though.
April 9
Jo: And ya I'll definitely be keeping in touch with you. That steamworks scene sounds pretty hot :) and I'm into it for sure. Like I said, its gonna be your show all the way- I'm just there to get you off heh. And that in turn will get me off, so have your way! I will do whatever you say ;) I can usually handle my own- being in the navy and all, but it'll be nice to have someone else in control and tell me what to do.
Jamie: Oh, I'm sure you can handle yourself; that's not the issue with being a sub. The issue is that sometimes it's really liberating and relaxing to give over control to someone else if you can trust them. It can be bad if you think you're getting one thing and then, once you're tied you get another. Which is why you probably shouldn't let guys you just run into on the street tie you up the first time unless you're willing to get beaten. But when there's some history, I'm told it can be really liberating to be somebody's bitch.
Steamworks is very hot. I definitely recommend it. Go to a bar and have a couple of drinks first and then walk in and get a room. You don't wanna be drunk when you're there, but for the first time, being a little relaxed for you to encourage yourself to go in is good.
And get a room so you can get away from people if things get too intense. Or to rest up between fucks or something ;-)
Jo: Yah, liberating is definitely up there. There's also this element of fulfillment that I get when I do something that someone with power tells me to do. It is really important to trust that person though, tied up or not. I'm handing over my body and my actions for you to decide what to do with, and I have to trust you to protect me.
All this talk about this has made me awful excited thinking about waiting in a room by myself, naked- for you to come in and completely dominate me. What a rush! Take me now and make me your bitch ;)
Jamie: Hey, bitch, you're kidding, but if I were in Chicago now I would.
April 10
Jo: Haha I'm not kidding at all. I really want that and the thought of it has got me going for sure. I just want it so bad.
I topped 3 times before and I felt completely out of my element. It was the least enjoyable thing ive done sexually. I get so much pleasure out of getting fucked that nothing else compares. My prostate must be pretty sensitive haha.
So all joking aside, make me your bitch ;)