The following submission is my actual reply to a nice gentleman who commented on my very first story submission to Nifty, " Sucking His Big Black Cock" I was so touched by his openness and sincerity, as you can tell from my response and experiences, it is rather long winded. I hope you enjoy it. Comments are welcome. While I can't promise a response, rest assured that every comment, good or bad, is appreciated.
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Hi, My name is **** I just finished reading your story about sucking a black guys cock in the rest room, I enjoyed it immensely, made my dick hard, I'm a married guy and I'm 58 yrs old, I started sucking cock at or around 53 and found that I love it, so much that if I had to choose between fucking a good pussy or sucking a cock I'd choose the cock every time, I'm fucking hooked, and the taste and the texture of a mouthful of cum, "oh My geez" I love it, lately I have been fantasizing about sucking a black mans dick, I've read tons of stories on the subject and watched a lot of porn videos and costantly look on craigslist for bbc pictures, damn they all seem so big, nearly every cumshot that I see their load is so thick and creamy, I cant get it out of my head, my dream situation would be to get on my knees and submit to a black man and worship his chocolate tool till he empties his load down my throat, I've chatted with one guy in a town near me that has nine inches and he says all he does is let white guys suck him, he claims to have no interest in sucking dicks himself, just getting sucked, we both are interested in a get together, but when he can, I cant, when I can, he cant, he has sent me some pictures of his tool and its fantastic, very long, thick and veiny, I want so much to take this monster in my mouth and suck the cum out of it, let me say I am still very much in love with my wife and love eating her pussy and fucking her, but these black cocks are stuck in my head, if I get to suck one will this desire go away or be easier to control, I mean damn I don't obsess over white Dick like this, thank you for letting me speak, "sin"cerily ****
My long winded response: 😄
Morning, *****
I really appreciate your email this morning. You told me a little about your situation, and your desire to experience sucking black dick. Don't give up on getting together with the gentleman you are talking with online. At some point, the stars will align and it will happen. I'm gathering from your email that more than likely you are a purely straight male who is interested in experimentation. Of course, you could be bisexual, but really, it's not important. People are just so fast to slap labels on people and it's just not necessary. We are all sexual beings, so let's just enjoy ourselves!
I absolutely love women on every level except sexually. I have always known I've been sexually attracted to men for as long as I can remember. I love all races, but even as a young boy, my interest and attraction has been for black men. Don't get me wrong. I do have white male buddies (2) that I have known and have orally serviced for years, and I enjoy that closeness with them. It also helps that we are similar in age, life experiences, and interests. Men need to bond. We are more physically and sexually oriented, and it's in our genes. Females are nurturers. Males will always look for a sexual outlet if given a choice, generally.
I very seldom get an email from someone that makes me want to divulge, but yours sure did. Your openness to share your feelings drew me in. I'm the same way at my core, I'm a good ol' country boy. I've lived in the South my entire life. While there are some things I don't like about the South, I embrace my upbringing and heritage. I'm from *********, about 100 miles north of ********* but have lived in ********** for the past 22 years. This is going to be a LONG email, so get ready!
I'm 53 years old and I've always known I love men. I'm not effeminate, not super manly, just your average guy (sort of). Like you, I'm a sharp, intelligent, and insightful person. I've always been a late bloomer of sorts in most areas of my life including sexually. I began my sexual journey around the age of 22, exclusively with men. My first sexual experience with a black male was around the age of 24. I totally loved it. It really isn't different than sex with our own race, but if your preference is for black men, generally speaking, the sexual feelings and arousal will be amplified. I hate to assume anything, but from your email I get the feeling that at this point in your life you are perhaps exploring other sexual outlets for yourself. As women get older their interest in sex wanes. I'm not sure about you, but my drive has only increased!
Here is where we have to talk, Buck. I believe that everyone should pursue what makes them happy sexually minus the pedophiles, who need to be castrated. We all have preconceived notions about other races. In the case of the black male, I'm sure most think that they are all very well endowed. I've seen small, average, large, and monster size dicks on black men. For myself, in the beginning, I was more fixated on size, but that quickly left me. I know I've always had a huge oral fixation and love giving total service and oral to completion. I've been penetrated and I enjoy it, but it's not my main focus. I suppose having an oral fixation has made me an exceptional dick sucker. I could do it 24/7 if given the chance. I do love cum as well, and any way I can get it. I love a facial from time to time, but these days, I'm a confirmed swallower.
I'm only giving my experience and not bragging. I suck dick almost every single day. Not a different dick every day, but I have buddies I've been taking care of for years. Black men, almost exclusively. I really don't have a gag reflex, either. Nothing makes me feel more fulfilled than when I have some black meat down my throat. In your own particular situation, again I am going to assume that your male to male experience is minimal. As you begin to explore this side of your life with experimentation, if you are thinking that every black man has a big one, it's not always true. It's true however that again, in my own experiences, black dick is on average, somewhat larger than other races. My attraction to black men is not solely on their dick, but the overall package. I love the color of skin. The eyes, the teeth, the wider noses, the beautiful fuller lips. It's my attraction to these things that make my desire to please a man sexually using my mouth and tongue, crucial. I don't want to give a black man a quick blow job. I explore every last inch of him. I take in his scent. I spend a lot of time on his low hangers.I find that by doing this, it makes my reward ( his sperm) more plentiful and rewarding. It lets me know I made him feel wonderful.
Over the years, you can begin to notice the subtle and not so subtle signs of an approaching orgasm. When a man begins to unload into my mouth, I suck vigorously on the head of his dick, like through a straw, until he begins to "come down" from his orgasm. Afterwards, I don't stop sucking either. I take his length into my mouth and gently milk out every last drop of sperm I can get. When that is done, I will gently kiss his dick, his nuts, the inside of his thighs. I really love sucking dick. If you really love something, you really do it well. This includes sucking pecker, too!
As I'm giving a man head, I get into his movement, his sounds, and his facial expressions as I'm blowing him. The encouragement he gives to me as I swallow his meat. For instance, while I have "regulars", every couple of weeks or so, I'll have a buddy show up I haven't seen for a while. Last night, a 40 year old buddy of mine showed up. We talked for a bit, then went back to my bedroom. He stripped, I put on some music, and I got between his legs while he was stretched out on the bed. For the next 30 minutes, I literally made love to his dick, periodically watching him when I would take him down to his balls. Low moans, eyes lightly closed, and his head going from side to side at times, told me I was doing it right. He would lightly lick his lips, and his warm hands were on the back of my neck. I edged him several times, then pulled myself from his dick just long enough to say "when you get ready to shoot, push my head all the way down on you" A few minutes later, he gasped several times, and gently pushed me down on his dick. I felt his dick begin to jerk in my mouth. As he kept shooting, I put gentle suction on the head of his dick, and gulped each shot of his jizz down my throat. After cleaning him up with my mouth and tongue, and gently kissing the length of his dick, I got a warm washcloth and washed his genitals. While I'm sure he enjoyed it, trust me when I tell you I loved it even more than he ever could.
This morning, while writing this email to you, a younger 25 year old friend called. Still half asleep, I asked him to stop over. I washed my face, brushed my teeth, and let the dogs outside. It's a beautiful day, so they were in heaven. I love my dogs and all living creatures big and small. If someone says they don't particularly "care" for my dogs, they will never be back. Any one who doesn't like animals is not to be trusted in my mind. I'm a decent judge of character, but animals have senses that are far more developed than our own. I believe there are different types of intelligence. One is no better than the another. In other words I believe animals have souls, and we don't give them as much credit as they deserve intellectually. Now, to wrap up this morning's encounter, my buddy came over, I put on the porn, and proceeded to show my friend the respect he deserves. One half hour later, he was on his way out the door, home to shower, then Church services. I guess that's a southern thing! I am amazed at all the religious men I have met through the years who are true believers and higher up in the Church. Pastors particularly. I can't judge them. That's not my issue. My job is to please and serve any man I have come to know and who are now invited into my home.
I know this was a very long winded email, so in wrapping things up, I say if you want to pursue your desires, do it. Use caution, use your head, and explore. When the time finally arrives, remember the following:
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Relax, enjoy the experience, and keep an open mind.
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Take your time! Don't rush. No rapid up and down bobbing. While you are doing this, if you can, watch your teeth. If this will be your first time on a dick, one thing I do is have my tongue over my bottom teeth as I suck a dick. It keeps the teeth away and at the same time, your tongue will be on the back of his shaft, constantly. Nice!
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Listen. Listen for signs and sounds. If the lucky recipient likes a move, do more of it. If you see and hear he's approaching his climax, this will give you time to make a decision. To swallow, or not. I only swallow those men I know. Until I begin to know a man, and there is a level of trust between us, only then will I gladly swallow. I also believe that swallowing a man's sperm indicates total acceptance of him as a man. That's important. Whether he tells you or not, it is to him too.
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The final and most important step(s) Be enthusiastic. Not cheer leader enthusiastic, but let him know you really enjoy it. If a man has a basic clue, he will be able to tell if you are enjoying the act. . Listen to HIM. I love when a man tells me how he wants it. Every man is different. Each dick is different. Mix it up. Go slow, go fast, use your tongue and lips to apply varying levels of feeling. There is a very small percentage of men who will not be able to ejaculate through head alone. They may let you know this, they may not. Don't take it personally if they don't. I love feeling that first powerful shot of semen from a man who has told me he cannot blow a load through oral manipulation. While attention to the shaft is a prime component of good head, just as much attention should be given to his nuts and that wonderfully sensitive area at the base of his balls and his ass crack.
Since you are probably not as preoccupied with oral as much as I obviously am, these are merely suggestions. If you find that you decide this is what you want to do, begin to appreciate each man and his privates, which are as individual as he is. The girth or not, veins and ridges or not, every inch of him. If you do, you will find a man who can become a buddy on a superficial level or an even deeper, more satisfying level. A real friend. I have no desire for anything serious. Been there and done it. It was a wonderful and trying life experience, but at this stage of my life, I find that I love being single. This status won't change unless there is some type of divine intervention!
Since this was such a long winded email, if it's okay with you, I would like to submit this to Nifty. The story you read was my first attempt at writing a few years back, and your email has inspired me to perhaps do some more writing. If you are comfortable with my submitting this to Nifty, any reference to our identities and/or location will be with held.
Well, that should be more than enough for now. You sound like a really kind and open person. Let's attempt to keep in touch to some degree. If you have any questions or any future encounters, keep me updated.
Good luck, and only the best to you!
Phil
------- Phil Ashio